Can you believe that we’re a month away from Valentine’s Day? Me either! The stores are flooded with Valentine’s Day cards, candy, calendar, candles etc… That’s a lot of “C’s” I just referenced!
Anyone that knows me, knows that I love “LOVE”! Love is everything! Love can make you happy. Love can make you sad. Love heals and I believe, LOVE can conquer all!
Therefore, it’s only appropriate that I begin by asking, “have you ever heard of a Twin Flame”? How about a “Soulmate”? You probably said “yes” to the latter. A Soulmate is defined as “a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic parter”. The Urban dictionary defines a soulmate as “being like a best friend but, more. It’s the one person in the world who knows you better than anyone else. It’s someone who makes you a better person, well, actually they don’t make you a better person…you do that yourself because they inspire you. A Soulmate is someone who you carry with you FOREVER. It’s the one person who knew you, accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did and when no one else would. And no matter what happens…you will ALWAYS love them, unconditionally.
The Urban Dictionary defines a Twin Flame as “our most perfect mirror, because they are us in another body. Our Twin Flame is the only one, who gives us a true and honest reflection of who we are, and where we are in our lives at any given time. When you look at each other, you will feel like you are looking in the mirror because of the magic of your soul being mirrored, you will just FEEL it! Not only do they reflect everything in us that is good…they also mirror any fears or perceived “weaknesses” that we feel we have…and those are reflected so that the twins can work through them TOGETHER”.
Often confused with the term “Soulmate”, Twin Flames are two halves of one soul. Your Twin Flame is the one person in this world that completes you.
If you love the topic of “LOVE” like I do, having a soulmate and / or a Twin Flame sounds like hearing your favorite song when you least expect it. Correct? Well think again!
Once you figure out who your Twin Flame is; pack up your heart, your emotions and grab some Kleenex because you’re in for an experience of a lifetime! Nothing great in life comes easy, someone once said including sharing a life with your Twin Flame.
The Twin Flame journey includes you and your other halve. One of you will be known as “the chaser” and the other one as “the runner”. The chaser is more aware and understanding. They carry a strong emotional connection to their twin and understand the mirror effect of the Twin Flame dynamic. The chaser will feel an emotion that something is “off” and this will serve as an impetus to take an action. This “off” feeling can include a feeling that their twin is experiencing sadness, anger / frustration, disappointment etc.. at that particular moment. The chaser just knows that their twin is going through something and they need to reach out. As a result, the chaser will initiate an action, a communication, do something to get their twin’s attention so that they know that they’re being thought of and that they’re there for them if the Twin needs them. Also, they could fear that they’re being forgotten about by their Twin.
Don’t get it twisted, the runner feels these same emotions as well but, instead of chasing their other half, they run from it! This is because the runner has never experienced such overwhelming emotions / feelings before and they may not even understand why they have these emotions / feelings and run as far away from their Twin out of fear.
As the one twin runs, the chaser begins to tire and eventually will stop chasing the twin. The end of the chase can be emotionally overwhelming accompanied with random tears for the Twin and may include feelings of loss.
After reading these two definitions and being introduced to the Twin Flame Journey, can you say that you’re with your soulmate? Or better yet, “are you and your Twin Flame in union”? If you answered “yes” to either question, consider yourself blessed and hold on to what you have like there’s no tomorrow. If you answered, “no” and you desire to be in union with your Twin Flame, you’ve come to the right place.
Over the next four weeks leading up to Valentine’s Day, if you would like to learn more about the Twin Flame Journey I’ll be continuing a dialogue right here. You can also follow my blog on Instagram (Cannot Make This Up Blog).